One sad story...

I want to tell you a story about my friend, A who is married to B and have a have child called C. They are married for quite some time now.. I think a few years before us..dalam 2 years before kot.. from outside, what we can see is one very happy family.. both of them are very successful, good career, good future, ader umah sendiri etc etc and a child to care for.. tapi deep down inside A is struggling. Why??She just found out that her husband has been unfaithful to her for almost 6 years!!

6 years tau.. bukan setahun due.. and the sad thing is she just knew about it only 3 months ago! Macamane dier bley tau? hem.. biasala.. suami mule tak mesra, suami dingin and bile selidik punyer selidik rupenyer B ni main kayu 3. Dier ader perempuan lain.. sangat sedey ok.. Akak pun tak sangka sebab B ni sangat caring and ambil berat pasal A ni.. Ingat lagi dulu mase A ni tengah pregger.. B ni siap pimpin tangan la.. amik lauk la.. uih.. kire suami mithali betol lah..

The thing is B and A ni bukan duk kat Malaysia, dorang duk kat oversea, but the girl is from Malaysia.. B ni selalu balik Malaysia dengan alasan kerja tapi rupanyer bukan sume work-related but also include affair-related. sedey kan.. kite percaya kat suami kite.. tapi suami kite pulak buat hal.. so sadddd.. so asik duk ulang alik Msia saje until one day B ni belanja minah tu datang oversea. Tapi sepandai2 tupai melompat, akhirnyer kantoi... A ni ternampak message dalam handphone B yang dorang tengah set up untuk meet somewhere.. mengamuk la A ni.. bile dorang confront.. baru terbocor jua rahsia..

Well, I am not trying to pinpoint who is wrong and who is right (but anyway, I am backing up A). Kite tak leh nak tau kan jodoh kite panjang mane.. mungkin hari ini kite sayang giler kat pasangan kite tapi esok luse mane tau kan.. Kite hanya mampu berdoa agar jodoh kite panjang.. The best thing to do is (as I always remind myself) do not give 100% of your heart to somebody.. limit it to let say 80%. At least, if your partner dump you, you still have 20% of your heart to help you rebuild yourself.

One more thing! Always love yourself and don't depend 100% on your husband - please la.. educate yourself.. make yourself useful.. lucky for A that she is well educated.. even without her husband, she can support herself and her son.. (Good for you!).

Anyhow, one thing that A reminded me that I will need to remember by heart..A once said,'Kite kene careful sikit sekarang ni. Ramai perempuan kat luar sane yang pancing suami kite lagi2 kalo suami kite banyak duit.. sekarang pompuan lagi ramai dari lelaki..tengok macam akak.. duk jauh2 pun orang Malaysia bley amik suami akak.. nanti Myra dah balik msia.. jaga Addi elok2' sounds a bit harsh is it? well I dont blame her though...

Hem.. what comes around goes around.. harap2 satu hari B akan sedar silap dier.. tapi by then, semua dah terlewat... PADAN MUKA!